Phynyx Ministries 1st Annual Fundraising Gala

Phynyx Ministries 1st Annual Fundraising Event:

The Red Tape Gala 

 

Hello Beautiful!

 

I am so excited about our  Red Tape Gala Fundraiser which is an event that publicly celebrates the work of Phynyx Ministries and its many supporters.  “Red Tape” represents the angry silence that many Survivors feel and harbor within that must be removed. At the Red Tape Gala, we will honor 5 women who have blazed a trail in the fight to end sexual violence with the "Blaze of Power" Award. We will remove our silence and speak up and out about not only the injustices experienced, but also the freedom from breaking the silence. 

 

Tickets will be available for purchase beginning March 9, 2013.  Reserve your tickets today by emailing indications of interest to me at phynyxministries@gmail.com.  We will be blasting information out regarding this event on all of our social media sites, which include Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and SocialCam, so please keep an eye out for it.  I am looking forward to seeing you there!

 

With love,

Phynyxx Skyy

 

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How Sexual Assault Affects Relationships/Marrianges

What is Sexual Assault and How it Affects

Relationships/Marriages

 

You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives.
Genesis 50:20


Hello Beautiful:

My good friends Kil and Dr. Roz have a blog by the name of Marriage-Exposed that deals with issues plaguing our relationships and marriages.  I have decided to share with you an article I wrote for the Marriage-Exposed in hopes that it will bless someone.  Read on...

What is Sexual Assault?

Sexual assault is any sexual activity involving a person who does not or cannot (due to alcohol, drugs, or some sort of incapacitation) agree or consent.  According to the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services, “sexual assault can be verbal, visual, or anything that forces a person to take part in unwanted sexual contact or attention.”  Sexual assault is somewhat of an umbrella term, and can describe many things, including:

·         Rape, including partner and marital (yes, you can be raped by your spouse)

·         Unwanted sexual contact (touching or grabbing)

·         Unwelcome exposure of another person’s body, exhibitionism, or voyeurism

·         Child sex abuse

·         Incest or molestation

·         Sexual harassment

·         Sexual exploitation of clients by therapists, doctors, dentist, or other professionals (yes, this does happen too)

How does Sexual Assault affect our relationships/marriages?

Sexual Assault affects our relationships/marriages in many different ways.  If you are the Survivor, you may feel completely unsupported by your mate, who may not understand why it is “taking so long” for you to “get it together” and get back on track. Partners may have many issues of their own that prevent them from being supportive — such as deeply held beliefs that you may have attracted sexual attention from another, guilt over not having been there to protect you, and just a general sense of not understanding your pain and your healing journey. 

You shouldn’t feel guilty or foolish if you feel emotionally disconnected from your partner or unhappy in the bedroom. It doesn’t mean that you don’t love your partner or that you are no longer a sexual being. Consider it a period of healing and growth in which you need to take things slow. You should be aware of some of the common fears and concerns that can haunt many victims of sexual assault.  You may feel like:

·         You are damaged goods

·         You are not a real man (if you are a man who was raped)

·         You can never enjoy sex again

·         You are afraid to be attractive and look desirable

Ultimately, rebuilding a relationship after you have been raped might be one of the most difficult things you will ever do, but it can also transform your relationship in extraordinary ways if you and your partner acknowledge the challenges and work to together to heal yourselves, and the relationship. Your bond can become stronger than ever before, and your connection with your partner will be more intimate and powerful (I’m a witness!!!). Just make sure to keep the communication lines open and turn to a therapist or counselor for help if you can.

Until we meet again, be encouraged and know that your past does not define you.  You can pick up the pieces and move forward with your life.

Peace and blessings,

Phynyxx Skyy

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References:

Dr. Laura Berman

Rainn.org        

Pandy’s.org

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Phynyx Ministries Salutes the Deltas...

Phynyx Ministries Salutes and Congratulates Delta Sigma Theta Sorority Inc., for 100 Years of Sisterhood and Service!!!

 

{First Row: Winona Cargile Alexander, Madree Penn Whiter, Wertie Blackwell Weaver, Vashti Turley Murphy, Ethel Cuff Black, Frederica Chase Dodd}

{Second Row:  Osceola Macarthy Adams, Pauline Oberdorfer Minor, Edna Brown Coleman, Edith Mott Young, Marguerite Young Alexander, Naomi Sewell Richardson, Eliza P. Shippen}

{Third Row:  Zephyr Chisom Carter, Myra Davis Hemmings, Maimie Reddy Rose, Bertha Pitts Campbell, Florence Letcher Toms, Olive Jones, Jessie McGuire Dent, Jimmie Bugg Middleton, Ethel Carr}

 

On January 13, 1913, Delta Sigma Theta Sorority was founded by 22 collegiate women on the campus of Howard University.  These students wanted to use their collective strength to promote academic excellence and to provide assistance to persons in need.  Without the courage and guidance of these 22 amazing women, organizations like Sisters4Sisters and Phynyx Ministries would not exist.  The first public act performed by the Delta Founder involved their participation in the Women's Suffrage March in Washington D.C., March 1913.  Delta Sigma Theta was incorporated in 1930.

The Founders of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority left a blueprint of Sisterhood and Success for generations of women.  Although I am not a Delta, I have plenty of loved ones who are strong, successful Delta women! 

So on this day of your Centennial, Women of Delta Sigma Theta, Incorporated...Phynyx Ministries, Inc. salutes and congratulates you! May God continue to bless you all with His favor and love!!!

With love,
Phynyxx Skyy
(Delta history by Carolyn Washington, Sisters4Sisters, Inc.)

 

 

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Prophetic Word for Today...

Prophetic Word from Marquieta Williams of Woman KNOW Thyself...

Daughter's know that I am increasing your minds, and shifting your awareness into higher realms of consciousness at this time. Surly I am calling you all to embrace the divine feminine and masculine aspects of who you are in Me. Truly you all are multi-dimensional beings, and as you all go forth and trust me...know that I am cleansing you and washing away the former ways of thinking and being. I have called you all to live and thrive at such a time as this...my promises to you all are yes and amen. I have called you all to be transformed and renewed in your minds, and also to search for me as a lost treasure. Though you all have suffered immensely over the ages because of ignorance, I call you all my beloved creators, and intentions of me. I am the God of the Universe...The Alpha & Omega, and I call you all into my bosom to show you all great love, and mighty things that you knowest not in 2013 and in years to come. I am You, You are Me, We are One.

This Word spoke VOLUMES to my spirit, so I had to share with you.  I pray that you are blessed by it as well!

With love,
Phynyxx Skyy

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Happy New Year from Phynyx Ministries!!!

 

 

As we begin a new year, please take a moment to meditate on What the Word of God says about "New Beginnings" listed below. 
  
In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
John 1:1
   
To put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
Ephesians 4:22-24
   
Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.
Isaiah 43:18-19


Hello Beautiful,

As the year 2012 comes to a close, I feel so blessed to have had the opportunity to support and serve so many survivors of sexualviolence.  It hasn't always been a "Walk in the Park" but it has definitely been a "Walk with God" and I pray that He will allow me to continue the mission that He has pressed upon me. 

Thank you all from the bottom of my heart for whatever contribution you've made to Phynyx Ministries.  Whether it was a donation (time or monetary), Like on Facebook, Follow on Twitter, praying for the Ministry, joining the support group, dialing into conference calls, supporting our outreach efforts, or even forwarding our emails.  You have played a significant role in making 2012 a great year for Phynyx Ministries. 

2013 will be an even bigger, better and busier year than 2012, so we will need your continued support.  Together, we can make a huge difference in the lives of those who have survived sexual violence!!!

May God bless you with great health, overwhelming happiness and abundant healing in 2013!!!

With love,
Phynyxx Skyy

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MOVING FORWARD

The time has come to say “see you later”

to things we have that weren’t given by our Creator.

For God made his children excellent not average,

so we shouldn’t carry around emotional baggage.

 

So out with the old and in with the new,

this year concentrate on being a better you.

Remove the bandage that’s covering up pain,

so healing can begin and confidence you will gain.

 

Do a spiritual cleansing from the inside out

use a purifying substance to wash away doubt.

Say good-bye and forgive those who trespassed

against you; say hi to God a best friend that’s true.

 

Now plant your feet on solid ground; and don’t

 trip over the enemy whose always around.  Every

day talk to God about life concerns, then give them to

him; it’s now his turn.

 

Beat the enemy by reciting verses in the Bible,

for they’re the best ammunition for survival.

Let him assume the position and take his best shot,

but God said touch my anointed he cannot.

 

So with this New Year that God has graced us to see;

Moving forward with him should be our first priority!

 

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

 

Written by:  Blanche R. Jackson 12/28/12

 

 

 

 

 

 

Special Holiday Conference Call Prayer Session...

For to us a child is born...
        To us a Son is given.

And he will be called
         Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Isaiah: 9:6


Feeling a little depressed or stressed right about now? Then please join Phynyx Ministries for a special early morning prayer on December 24th, Christmas Eve at 6:15am to cover you and your family with the Word of God in prayer for Christmas. We promise not to keep you long so please join us and be sure to tell a friend!  218-632-0550 (817305#)   #GetYourBlessing  #PrayerChangesThings 

Merry Christmas!!!
Phynyx Skyy

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Oh Give Thanks!!!

Happy Thanksgiving From Phynyx Ministries!!!

 

 

 

I will praise the name of God with a song, and will magnify him with Thanksgiving.

Psalms 69:30

 

Enter into his gates with thanksgiving, and into his courts with praise: be thankful unto him, and bless his name.

Psalms 100:4

 

And let them sacrifice the sacrifices of Thanksgiving, and declare his works with rejoicing.

Psalms 107:22

 

 

Happy Thanksgiving Beautiful,

 

We made it to see yet another Thanksgiving!!!  This day has special significance for me as it marks the 16th year of my assault.  I am truly thankful to God for sparing my life on this day so many years ago.  Some may think, "Why would she want to bring attention to this day or to her assault."  I celebrate my life on this day.  I celebrate on this day because I know what it feels like to not know if you will never make it out of the woods alive!!!  I celebrate God for allowing me to remain on this earth to do the work that He has called me to do.  On today and every November 22nd, I will bring positive attention to this day of celebration for me and I pray that someone will be blessed along the way. 

 

And as we take this day to reflect on how God has blessed us, let us not forget to pray for those of us who may not be as fortunate as others.  Enjoy spending time with your family and eat all the turkey, stuffing, collard greens, sweet potatoes, mac & cheese, sauerkraut, green beans, corn pudding, chitterlings (yes, I said chitterlings), chocolate cake, lemon cake, sweet potato pie, apple pie, peach cobbler, cheese cake and anything else you want today...I give you permission, but you have to promise me that you will work out especially hard tomorrow, okay???

 

Humbly yours,

 Phynyxx Skyy

 

 

 

 

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