Welcome to Phynyx Ministries!

Hello Beautiful Survivor!

Welcome to Phynyx Ministries, a place where you can obtain lots of helpful information to help you break your silence and begin to heal from being sexually assaulted. If you are not a Sexual Assault Survivor, perhaps you know someone who is. Please feel free to share this website with that person. This website is also a place where Survivor's can share their story, a poem, or words of encouragement with a survivor or anyone who chooses to visit our site.

I praise God for allowing me to survive being sexually assaulted because I now know what my purpose in this life is - and that is to be an example to those survivors who may feel that they can't move forward with their lives in a positive way. There was a time in my life when I thought that I'd never leave the confines of my mother's bedroom which was where I retreated after the attack. But I continued to pray to God for strength, peace, and sanity. I sought professional treatment and had an awesome support system.

It's been 15 years since that cold November night, but today I am happily married, have two beautiful daughters, and living life to the fullest. The road to recovery is not easy, but I made it and you can as well. Don't get me wrong, I still have flashbacks from time to time, but I've learned not to let them consume me. I know who I am and what I'm worth...I'm worth more than my attacker thought I was and like the Phoenix, I will continue to rise.

With love,
Phynyxx Skyy

(...what the devil meant for evil, God meant for good...)

Genesis 50:20

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

Phynyx Ministries in the Media This Week!!!

Television:  Please tune in to It's On with John Holmes on Comcast Channel 75 tonight July 31st at 10pm to learn more about Phynyx Ministries and to hear powerful testimonies from Survivors of Sexual Violence who are all members of Phynyx Ministries. 

Radio:  Check me out on WHUR's (96.3) The Daily Drum with Harold Fisher on this Thursday, August 2nd from 7-7:30pm.  Then the conversation continues on Sirius XM Radio Ch. 141 from 7:30 - 8pm. 

Hello Beautiful!

I am sooooo excited about these events because it means that I can reach so many more Survivors to help them out of  whatever level of darkness they are in.  I pray that you will pass along this information to anyone you may know that has been affected by sexual violence.  The statistics are startling!  Did you know that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men have been sexually assaulted???  See, I told you the stats were starling.  So, please tune in to at least one of these events if at all possible.  Again, please forward this information to your family and friends; I would be honored if you did!  Be blessed always!

With love,
Phynyxx Skyy


Monday, July 30, 2012

A Little Monday Inspiration...

Sovereign Lord, you are God! Your covenant is trustworthy, and you have promised these good things to your servant.
2 Samual 7:28

I can do all things throught Christ who strengthens me.
Phillipians 4:13

Many, Lord my God, are the wonders you have done, the things you planned for us.  None can compare with you; were I to speak and tell of your deeds. they would be too many to declare.
Psalm 40:5

Hey There!
Happy Monday!  I had a wonderful weekend with  family and friend and just wanted to share a little inspiration with you today.  Have a wonderfully blessed day in the Lord and remember to do something to make someone smile today...I plan to!!!  Love ya!!! ~Phynyxx Skyy

Stunning possibilities

There is much to fear, and yet there is vastly more for which to be thankful. How could we even know fear unless there was some frame of reference against which to view it?
The innate goodness of life and of all creation is overwhelming, and extends from the smallest particle of matter out to the most distant galaxies. The good and valuable things we take for granted in just a single hour’s time could not be fully comprehended even after a thousand years of study.
Positive possibilities stretch out in every direction, and following just one of them opens up another equally magnificent set of new ones. Certainly there are obstacles, yet they are finite and massively outnumbered.
Against such a bright and shining background, the problems and difficulties themselves become opportunities for even further blessings. Indeed, those problems ultimately serve to strengthen and to deepen our appreciation for the best of who we are and what we can be.
For every sadness there are a million possible joys. Look closely, lovingly and gratefully at the stunning possibilities in every moment and open yourself up to the best of them.    — Ralph Marston

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Monday, July 16, 2012

A Little Morning Inspiration...

Today's Scripture:  You are my refuge and my shield; I have put my hope in your word. (NIV)
Psalm 19:114

Hello Beautiful:
The hand of the Father is behind all good things.  Always know that the steps you take were already mapped out by God.  What you do when you reach certain situations and how you handle them is what God looks at.  Thank Him for blessing you with the good!  Have a great day on purpose!!!

With love,
Phynyxx Skyy

~Inspirational message by Darnyle Wharton (my hubby :))

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Wednesday, July 4, 2012

A Little July 4th Inspiration...

Hello Beautiful!

As we take time to spend with our family and friends on today celebrating the July 4th holiday, let us not forget that there are still so many without power from last Friday's terrible storm.  Please keep them lifted in prayer that God will restore power to their homes but in the meantime, that He would give them the power to continue to survive. 

Below is a poem written by a member of my Leadership Team Blanche Jackson.  She is a Survivor and uses her experience to bless others with poetry.  I hope this poem blesses your heart as it did mine.  Enjoy yourself today and remember God loves you and so do I! 

With love,
Phynyxx Skyy

Let’s Fire Up Flames of Worship

An explosion of fireworks set off beautiful arrays of

colors. If you could illuminate something in the sky

 would you share anything with others?

Would you share a testimony written in hieroglyphics

to help someone else? Or would you keep it like

a secret all to yourself?

Don’t think that you are isolated to what happens

to you cause’ its someone else out there who

experience those same things too

A live person who shares a testimony puts an

exclamation mark on God’s work. For they’re

helping others seek the Kingdom before they’re

covered with dirt

They say that someone was complaining about

not having any shoes til they met someone who

had no feet...are you sharing God’s word

with everyone that you meet?

Distractions is the enemy who comes to kill, maim,

and destroy.  Don’t give him any ammunition

because he’ll use you like a toy

The greatest ammunition is the Father, Son, and

the Holy Ghost who’ll shoot you right to Heaven

where you can be a host

So as we lift our heads in awe of the fireworks to

celebrate the 4th of July; let’s also acknowledge our

Father the creator of the sky

For he is worthy to be praised because he’s the 

truth and the light so let’s fire up spiritual flames of

worship and pray the word ignites!

Happy 4th of July!

Written by:  Blanche R. Jackson 07/01/08