Welcome to Phynyx Ministries!

Hello Beautiful Survivor!

Welcome to Phynyx Ministries, a place where you can obtain lots of helpful information to help you break your silence and begin to heal from being sexually assaulted. If you are not a Sexual Assault Survivor, perhaps you know someone who is. Please feel free to share this website with that person. This website is also a place where Survivor's can share their story, a poem, or words of encouragement with a survivor or anyone who chooses to visit our site.

I praise God for allowing me to survive being sexually assaulted because I now know what my purpose in this life is - and that is to be an example to those survivors who may feel that they can't move forward with their lives in a positive way. There was a time in my life when I thought that I'd never leave the confines of my mother's bedroom which was where I retreated after the attack. But I continued to pray to God for strength, peace, and sanity. I sought professional treatment and had an awesome support system.

It's been 15 years since that cold November night, but today I am happily married, have two beautiful daughters, and living life to the fullest. The road to recovery is not easy, but I made it and you can as well. Don't get me wrong, I still have flashbacks from time to time, but I've learned not to let them consume me. I know who I am and what I'm worth...I'm worth more than my attacker thought I was and like the Phoenix, I will continue to rise.

With love,
Phynyxx Skyy

(...what the devil meant for evil, God meant for good...)

Genesis 50:20

Thursday, August 9, 2012

A Little Inspiration: God's Word...

(God's Word comforts her.)

As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you; and you will be comforted over Jerusalem.
Isaiah 66:13

Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.
Matthew 5:4

When the Advocate comes, whom I will send to you from he Father-the Spirit of truth who goes out from the Father-he will testify about  me.
John 15:26

Hello Beautiful!

God's word is the true source of comfort. There are probably a whole host of people in your life that can offer a very good encouraging word...parents, siblings, best friends, mentors, pastors, co-workers, and even strangers but to receive true comfort and relief for what's going on with you,  His word for your life will comfort you the best; you just have to be patient enough to wait on it and have the faith to follow it.  (Written by: Darnyle K. Wharton, my hubby)

This was an on-time word as me and my family are mourning the death of my Uncle Dennis who passed away on Sunday, August 5, 2012 from lung and throat cancer.  Sometimes, all you have is God and his word to stand on.  God will give you His peace that surpasses all understanding if you just ask Him in the name of Jesus.  I've been doing just that to help keep my family in these trying times but this too shall pass.  God will never leave nor forsake you; even when you feel that you are alone, you're not.  God is ever present, especially in the time of trouble.  Beloved, just call on Him and he will answer.

With love,
Phynyxx Skyy